4 things about me

Thanks to Princess for this tag

4 Jobs I've Done:

1. None
2. None
3. Hospital caregiver
4. None

4 Shows on my TiVo/DVR:

1. GKNB
2. wowowie
3. TV patrol NEWS
4. Prison break

4 Places I've Been:

1. Manila
2. Cebu
3. Bohol
4. Hongkong

4 Favorite Foods:

1. Noodled with egg
2. Lumi
3. Pancit canton
4. Sisig

4 CD's Recently Listened To:

1. Nina ( the soul siren)
2. Kyla ( the RNB princess in PI)
3. Sheryl crow
4. Eric Clapton

4 Things You Can Do To Make My Day:

1. TV
2. Internet
3. Taking a bath
4. Checking messages on my Phone

tagging this to Jana, Lourdz and A fil-am Journey

Let me Love you

Once upon a time, there was once a guy who was very much in love with this girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of papercranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualise any future for the both of them, so let's go their own ways there and then... heartbroken, the guy agreed.

When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself. Finally with all these hardwork and with the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company...

"You never fail until you stop trying." he always told himself. "I must make it in life!"
One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realise those were his ex-girlfriend's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore, he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He had made it in life!

Before the guy can realise, the couple was walking towards a cemetary,and he got out of his car and followed them...and he saw his ex-girlfriend, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his precious papercranes in a bottle placed beside her tomb. Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was stricken ill with cancer. In her heart, she had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want her illness to be his obstacle ... therefore she had chosen to leave him.

She had wanted her parents to put his papercranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him. The guy just wept ...the worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never see them again.
The End."

A tragic story that perhaps happens only in the movies. At the end of the day, money is money is money but love is divine. In our quest for our material wealth, take time to make time for our loved ones. There will be a time when we have only memories to cling to.
Take this weekend to show our "love" to all that are close to us.

Did I marry the right person?

Just sharing this great post from friendster, hope you'll have time to read this its worth it I swear.

"How do I know if I married the
right person?" I
noticed that there was a Large man
sitting next to her so I said, "It
depends.
Is that your husband?"

In all seriousness, she
answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because
the chances are good that it's
weighing on your mind. Here's the
answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In
the beginning,
you fell in love with your
spouse.

You anticipated their call, wanted
their touch, and
liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse
wasn't hard. In
fact, it was a completely natural
and spontaneous experience. You didn't
have
to DO anything. That's why it's
called "falling" in love... because
it's
happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was
swept off my
feet." Think about theimagery of
that expression. It implies that you
were
just standing there; doing
nothing, and then something came along
and happened
TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a
passive and
spontaneous experience. But after a
few years of marriage, the euphoria of
love
fades. It's the natural cycle of
EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely,
phone calls become a bother (if they
come at all), touch is not always
welcome
(when it happens), and your
spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of
being cute,
drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with
every
relationship, but if you think about
your marriage, you will notice a
dramatic
difference between the initial stage
when you were in love and a much
duller or even angry subsequent
stage. At this point, you and/or your
spouse might start asking, "Did I
marry the right person?" And as you
and your
spouse reflect on theeuphoria of the
love you once had, you may begin to
desire that experience with someone
else.

This is when marriages break down.
People blame their spouse for their
unhappiness and look outside their
marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in
all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is
the most obvious.
But sometimes people turn to work,
church, a hobby, a friendship,
excessive TV, or abusive
substances. But the answer to this
dilemma does NOT lie outside your
marriage.
It lies within it. I'm not saying
that you couldn't fall in love with
someone
else. You could. And TEMPORARILY
you'd feel better. But you'd be in the
same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The
Key To Succeeding In Marriage Is Not
Finding The Right Person; It's
Learning To Love The Person You
Found!


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or
spontaneous
experience. It'll NEVER just happen
to you. You can't "find" LASTING love.
You
have to "make" it day in and day
out. That's why we have the
expression "the
labor of love."

Because it takes time, effort, and
energy. And most
importantly, it takes WISDOM.. You
have to know WHAT TO DO to make your
marriage work. Make no mistake
about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are
specific things you can do (with or
without your spouse) to succeed with
your marriage. Just as there are
physical laws of the universe (such as
gravity), there are also laws for
relationships. Just as the right diet
and
exercise program makes you
physically stronger, certain habits in
your
relationship WILL make your
marriage stronger. It's a direct cause
and effect.
If you know and apply the laws, the
results are predictable. .. you
can "make"
love works. Love in marriage is
indeed a "decision".. . not just a
feeling..

Such Love

This day isn't that bad at all to me, well my fiance seems not aware that I was a bit upset to him yesterday night cuz he still send those same lines he use to through to me.. So instead of getting upset to him more, I chose not to mind it and just let my feelings go so I wont feel bad thinking about those non sense feeling. Well we have just finished talking tonight and I feel good knowing were OK and that I don't feel upset anymore ohh well such love he he he. But as they always say thats how love make ups their own spices, to always keep the relationship HOT and Exciting.
We talked some stuff about life there and well thats what I have always been waiting for hehehe the talks about "USA". He is now off to computer and playing his bestfriend since birth his GUITAR, and I'm still here blogging lol, I told him I have to so I my visitors have something new to read and that it will help me increase my page rank too hehehe. Thats all I could share today... I'm looking for the brighter side of the clouds now and totally HAPPY...

Stupid feeling

Uhmmm while writing this entry Ive got tears in my eyes..why? I dont know, am I stupid or what?Well things were like this, my fiance and I used to chat everyday but the thing is when we chat, I always think his busy doing that, doing this, going there and etc. Lately when we chat, we talk about the paper process, exchanging inputs about it all. I knew Ive got more than he knew and the knows that.. I was always hoping that we will talk about everything, about my life there, culture shocks and more, you know i just wanted to learn, theres no way I can learn it from others cuz I will be living with him, everytime i read some couples that are almost being reunited I am always amazed with how excited they are to be together, like they can't wait and everything.. I find it weird with my fiance his less interested? or atleast thats how I feel.. I don't know, i just don't feel good. I know there is no such perfect relationship does this mean this is a normal happening to me??? well yes I hope so!!! I am excited to be with him, living and starting our new life together but I feel soo stupid knowing that his less interested... I understand I am stressing him out because of this f...... papers, well I was stressed by reading those pages online too, he appreciate it that I am putting myself into it.., and I am glad about it.

He is worried that if I am there I always get upset... Its normal to be upset right? I told him when I am upset and let him know the reasons and talk about it....
Thats what I found out lately......

Need some advice from the expert.....

Second Blog

When I came across with some bloggers site I always wonder how come they got a lot of blogsite but then I realize it's all about earning money, the more blogsite you have the more money and opportunity you will have. So here I go doing my second blog, my first blog is a month older than this one, I also realize that your page must be atleast a month before you'll get an approval from a paying advertisement sites. I remember when I made my first blog and saw some bloggers having fun earning money through advertisement so in my curiosity I submitted my blog though it was 3 days old, the advertisement site sent me some verification and then let me know that I have to wait.. so i waited and there it was a big DENIED word was being flaunted and there I read where and why am I being denied well simply because my page is not yet 1 month old he he he, they said that I can always resubmit it, my other blog is 1 month old now but still hasn't submitted it, but anyway I will someday soon. So this time for this new blog of mine I need to wait for some more months before I can submit this.. This earning through blogging really catch my interest when I knew how big the opps are I was like "what"??? LOL yea I was a bit shock cuz its a big money... I envy those people who got their own domains now but hey Im getting one too not yet but I know its gonna be soon Hollaaaahhh...
Some more months from now, I'll be getting serious on how to make money on blogging, I have to wait till I get to US so I can address everything there, cuz I don't want to address paypal here.
I am as excited as a kid drooling for a lollipop lol, yes im looking forward to the days I got my approval and learn some more stuff about this whole thing.

For those who add this new blog of mine thanks a lot, my blog wouldn't be perfect without linking with you guys... Enjoy blogging...

Who are your ocean 11?

Thank you Ellen for tagging me.

Name 11 people you can think of right off the top of your head. Don't read the questions underneath until you write the names of all 11 people. This is a lot funnier if you actually randomly list the names first.. No cheating.


1. Dean
2. Sosy
3. Rob
4. Richard
5. Jenny
6. Marvin
7. Ann
8. Jo
9. Che-che
10. Louie
11. Eddie

Now, it's time to answer the following questions:

HOW DID YOU MEET #4?
Richard, we met through a friend named jhan.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO WITHOUT # 6?
duhhh puppy love lol, past tense ha ha ha.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF #2 AND # 6 WERE GOING OUT?
Sosy & Marvin, hmmm shocks lol as in hehehe sosy is my bestfriend and marvin was some part of my past hahaha, I don't think i will be okay if they will go out cuz marvin is already married duhhh and my bestfriend have bf too.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF #5 CONFESSED HE/SHE LOVES YOU ?
Jenny, LOL were friends I don't think she will confess hahaha were good friends you know.

WHO'S #10'S BEST FRIEND?
Louie, thats my nephew i would guess who is his best friend i think its his classmate ;)

HAVE YOU EVER EATEN AROUND #1?
LOL yes ofcourse his my honey.

DO YOU MISS #2?
Yes I missed hanging out with her, shes in CDO now.

WHO IS #11 DATING
Eddie, that's my bf's best friend. I dont think his dating...

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF #3?
Rob, His fine.. some part of my past lol we were MU before I met my fiancee ;) his from australia I think his already married.

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF #9?
Che-che, my niece shes kinda PUNK and EMO, shes weird LOL.

WHAT WOULD U DO IF #4 AND #7 WERE DATING?
Richard and Ann, nyahahaha richard is my gay friend and ann is my friend I can't imagine if they'll go out together eww lol.

WHO DOES #2 LIKE?
Sosy likes her BF jumar ofcourse ;)

WOULD YOU MARRY #8?
LOL, NO nyahahaha, shes my friend her husband will kill me if im gonna marry her ha ha ha.

DO YOU LOVE #10?
Yes Louie is my nephew i love him...

EVER SLEPT IN THE SAME ROOM AS ANY OF THE NUMBERS?
Yes ofcourse lol that isn't new at all ssshhh. he he he

I tag this to Laura